Day 7: Joy, Old Wounds, Family Grief, and Learning to Speak Faith Boldly

Day 7 of Journal of an Ordinary Man blends joy, nostalgia, grief, and spiritual awakening in one of the most emotionally layered entries so far. After a successful hike and a heartwarming reunion with old bowling teammates, I reflect on how gratitude and connection can ground us even when life brings unexpected challenges. A recent setback in a mining deal leaves questions unanswered, but leaning on trusted peers brings clarity and calm.

The evening takes a somber turn as my wife and daughter complete their advent puzzle and FaceTime my father-in-law, who is struggling deeply with loneliness after the loss of his wife. This emotional moment sparks a family discussion about helping him transition into a new home and community next year — another addition to the growing list of life changes ahead.

In the backstory section, I revisit a powerful memory triggered by a friend’s story: the moment my parents gave away their belongings and moved to Mexico, including the shocking scene of my father tossing his car keys in the trash. It’s a painful, insightful reminder of how unresolved family wounds can echo years later.

The “Unique Question of the Day” asks what truth I need to face right now, and the answer is clear: I must be more intentional in how I show up — not only in my own life, but in the lives of those I love. This journal is helping me stay accountable to that.

Spiritually, I reflect on Romans 1:16, exploring my desire to no longer shy away from sharing my faith. “I am not ashamed of the gospel” becomes a personal challenge to speak about God openly and honestly when the moment calls for it.

If you’re navigating family grief, old memories, unexpected flashbacks, or learning to walk boldly in your faith, this episode offers a heartfelt and honest look at how God shows up in the joy, the sorrow, and the small ordinary moments of a day.